CHEATING

I am reading a book about ladies getting their stuff together. It is a book about rules on how to catch no good dogs, and do's and don't's in relationships. I got to the chapter about cheating. This chapter was about why do men cheat? I always been asked this question and I have always wondered the answer. I was reading what the author said; she stated that men just cheat to cheat and women cheat with a purpose. Like we cheat because our man lacks something. She also stated that it is ok to cheat even if their is a label like boyfriend/girlfriend, I thought that was crazy yeah, I mean their isn't a paper stating you are going to spend your life with that person, but that is the next step to marriage is being in a committed relationship and I believe there is never a good enough reason to step out on your spouse regardless of the label, it shows you have no respect for others and you do not have respect for yourself. I do agree that men are more sloppy then women when they cheat. But i believe that women are dumber because most of the time when we cheat we leave with the other man, because we always think the grass is greener on the other side.
NEWFLASH LADIES: It is not greener on the other side and to be honest its nasty and tacky to cheat just break up with the person and be single. there are no right and wrong ways to cheat. Cheating is horrible period and we shouldn't do it. SO for all my people out there that think cheating is ok, and you'll never get caught I hope that you experience an S.T.D or something horrible, because it is never ok to play with people's emotions. openly or discreetly.....

pretty girls

I was thinking about a concept yesterday while I was watching this mud duck(not so pretty person) talking. She was telling her friends that pretty girls have it easier in the world, that everything is handed to them, all their relationships are perfect, and we never have to go through anything bad. At first I thought she was right I could see why she thinks pretty girls have it easy, but on the other hand I think she was so wrong. Being on the pretty side I think that it is harder. For me when people see me they automatically judge me. they I'm stuck up, conceded, dumb you name it, and to be honest I am none of those things I am the most down to earth person, I am no stuck up or conceded, I am humble and I know here I came from. I think being a pretty girl is harder because people sometimes get stuck on the beaut part of who we are and not who we are on the inside. everytime I go out I get wow your sexy, never hey I love your personality and I know what your thinking looks is what people notice first I get that but sometimes that is all people care for and that gets very tiring. My butt has a fan club of its own so many people just stair at it ask me if its real what do I eat, BLAH BLAH BLAH. Pretty girls are never trusted, guys who try to talk to me think I have tons of guys I talk to everyday or that I have a man on the side and to be honest I dont... I think being pretty is hard because people never get pass your looks and see the real you.. Sometimes I wish people could really get to know the real lil foot and who she is, and not stop at what I look like and when or how can I sleep with her... SO to all my MUD DUCKS who want to be a pretty girl it is not what it is cracked up to be... we get hurt too, people dont look pass our looks, we get judged all the time, people critizes us all the time, and somehow we end up alone because we just have way too much bagagge so coming from a pretty girl I think having a great personality will get you father in life than just being another pretty girl.